Some recommended websites for exploring erotic writing:
Lisabet's Sarai's Beyond Romance - how to articles, interviews and all kinds of other good stuff
Write Sex - a how-to write erotica and related blog by professional writers and editors
Erotic Readers and Writers Association - market guides, how-to articles, reviews, etc.
Erotica Revealed - excellent erotica review site
Oh, Get a Grip! - Erotica and erotic romance writers on their work, their process, etc.
Babbling Books and More - erotic romance reviews, author spotlights, etc.
Sex, Food and Writing - blog of author Donna George Storey, featuring reviews, guest authors, etc.

My alter ego has a story in the 2014 edition of Best Lesbian Erotica

Here's the Table of Contents for the awesome, awesome Best Lesbian Erotica 2014, due out from Cleis Press next  month. It's the last one of this series that the amazing Kathleen Warnock will be editing and Sarah Schulman is the guest editor, so it's definitely a thing you need. Plus, look at this line-up!

A Good Workout  Sinclair Sexsmith

Reunion at St. Mary’s  Catherine Lundoff

Hey, Stranger  Diana Cage

Big Lesbo Cupcakery  D. L. King

Lake Travis Steam  Lucien C. West

Imaging  Sharon Wachsler

Birthday Butch  Teresa Noelle Roberts

Nocturne  Cheryl Jimmerson

Stitch and Bitch  A. L. Simonds

Call for Submission  Nairne Holtz

Run, Jo, Run  Cheyenne Blue

Tongue in Cheek  Amal Arabi

What I Need  Xan West

Bridge Line  Anamika

Who at My Door Is Standing  Sam Tweed

My Bagandan Princess  Dolar Vasani

Mommy Is Coming  Sarah Schulman and Cheryl Dunye

This will be the new blog for Romance and Erotica Writer Emily L. Byrne.

Under her other name, Emily is an award-winning writer and editor who is owned by terrifyingly intelligent cats.